Ya’ll ready for church? Because I am about to spit some serious wisdom. It is a key principal that took an at-risk youth, who grew up on welfare
… to her dream of working as a journalist in the biggest market in this country: New York City.
That same girl, then made a series of bad mistakes – from aligning myself with the wrong people to people pleasing. It cost me everything… AND I MEAN EVERYTHING. But it is never too late to rebuild! Mistakes can either grieve you for the rest of your life – or you can OWN IT and empower yourself to know what NOT TO DO AGAIN.
I chose empowerment… and reminded myself of how I achieved my dreams in the first place: VISION.
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Habakkuk 2:2-3 explains it best!
“And the Lord answered me, and said, write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry”.
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For 7 whole years… I was in a rut. I rehearsed over and over in my head all the bad things that had happened. But what was I meditating on regarding my future? Nothing but fear… until I finally created my vision board. You know like the one below ⤵⤵⤵
Your vision board is your opportunity to BE BOLD. BE BRAVE. AND THINK BIG. Your job isn’t to figure out HOW IT’S GONNA HAPPEN… your job is to believe God is able.
Will God help you accomplish every goal? Not always… but when He doesn’t, He usually sends you on a path to see why you don’t want it. Trust me everything that glitters ain’t gold.
So what are your natural gifts and talents? What have you given up on… or never started due to lack of money, no connections, closed doors, fear, lack of ability, etc?
Go through magazines like my #FitFriends did! (we made a party out of it) If you don’t have magazines – go to google images and print every photo that exemplifies YOUR DREAM GOD GAVE YOU. No one has to believe it BUT YOU!! Then paste it on the chart 🔼🔼🔼 above and find a scripture that agree’s with every image… and declare God’s word over your vision board everyday!
I even make my kids do it!
Then find yourself an accountability partner… like my 5 foot 2 mentor Jessica. 😇
Once a week, Jessica and I share ideas… then build 3 strategic ways to make the first steps happen.
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Proverbs 16:9 “We can make our plans, but the LORD determines our steps”.
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She was the first one who boldly told me, “GET OVER YOURSELF AND MOVE ON”. So I did… and went back to the basics and created a new vision board. It was time to create a new path… since the ones I’ve been on – wasn’t exactly throwing out the red carpet. #LOL
One of those paths lead me to my daughter’s school. Goal: help this teacher ↘↘ change her perception of self.
Miss. Stephanie thought she needed botox. We proved she could be wrinkle free in less than 90 seconds without injections? WOW! Fine lines gone! Eyes and forehead!
So is this my vision of hosting the TODAY show. No. But it might be my path to getting there. Showing products that actually work. If not… it might still fund my kids education. And that quite frankly is a vision worth having.
Oh yeah… and being wrinkle free 😜
Ya’ll better get some vision…. and some WOW too!
November 21, 2015 at 4:13 am
Shon I have a national online black tv network Black Contemporary Television which has over 250.000 hits in November alone I would love to promote the product and talk to you about developing a show around you go to http://www.bctv.tv to see if you want me to get this going
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November 21, 2015 at 12:48 pm
I’ll check it out!
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November 21, 2015 at 9:10 am
Love this Ms Shon! Your vision board is a fabulous idea and workable for all. Enjoyed your bio Ms Shon and hope you continue this effort.
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November 21, 2015 at 12:47 pm
Fill in your vision board. The graphic in the blog makes it easy to start!
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November 21, 2015 at 2:08 pm
I read your blog and God spoke to me. Yesterday, I was worried,stressed uncertain as I began to read all of those emotions started to fade away…As I was reminded to have Faith in God dwelling on the past is not of God we should focus on the present as nothing is promised. God’s timing is best rather its denied, delayed or immediate blessings
It teaches the faithful one patients. The part that I needed that I got from your post is threefold rebuild ,vision and a accountability partner. Thanks for sharing and the inspiration. God is able!Great post!
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November 21, 2015 at 2:17 pm
Wow… now you are inspiring!!
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December 31, 2015 at 12:30 am
Thanks!!
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November 21, 2015 at 5:31 pm
The universe has been talking to me for a while. Your blog has reaffirmed what I’ve been finally stopping and listening to. My first husband use to say all the time “All that glitters is not Gold”. I started last night writing a book about my journey. Thank you for being the answers that I’ve been seeking and allowing God to speak through you in letting me know I’m on the right path. Blessings Shon and safe travels.
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November 21, 2015 at 5:56 pm
I wanna see some completed vision boards with your photo attached! Yes!
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December 31, 2015 at 12:30 am
Awesome! Thanks!!
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November 21, 2015 at 8:59 pm
“…and find a scripture that agree’s with every image…”
That’s the key. Finding that alignment, from the start, really takes your vision from a dream to a mission.
Love the advice around an accountability partner as well. “Partnering” with likeminded individuals is a deliberate step that keeps you on track.
This will speak to many and definitely spoke to me.
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November 21, 2015 at 9:01 pm
Thank you! I wanna see your vision board. When done tweet me @ShonGables
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December 31, 2015 at 12:29 am
Awesome!
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November 24, 2015 at 6:03 pm
true that! God, glitters, paths… totally! 😉
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November 29, 2015 at 10:45 pm
Helping someone to change the perception of their self. I love that. Inspiring and encouraging. Makes me want to get up and do more for ladies around me. Catch the vision and pass it around.
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December 31, 2015 at 12:29 am
Yeaah!!
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December 30, 2015 at 2:56 pm
Wow…I need it as well as the message & inspiration you shared. With NY two days away, I need to get started. I will definitely try the vision board so I can reflect on my goals & hold myself accountable. I’m tired of dwelling on the past & allowing it to negatively dictate my future. Anxious to embrace 2016 & begin a wrinkled-less future in both respects. Second chances…faith…God.
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December 31, 2015 at 12:28 am
Post a pic on my Instagram/Facebook page when complete! Can’t wait to see it! Under same name!
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January 24, 2016 at 6:36 am
Shon I told you around 2 months ago that I would give you my input, and I apologize for having taken this long to get back with you sis.
This is AWESOME. I had wondered where that dynamic smile had disappeared to once I no longer saw you on the morning show. Redemption is so defining. It is something that really helps us learn about or own level of resolve when the going gets tough. Keep pushing sis…and thanks for the motivation to keep working towards my goals and dreams!
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January 24, 2016 at 2:13 pm
Awwww thanks for your feedback!
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